Yes, it belonged here. That way everyone gets to see the whole story instead of splitting it up!
Thanks Dee Dee. That's what I thought too!
You sound like my hubs. "No. You can NOT have more!"
For me, it's about quality of life, for both myself and my three existing cats. If I had four, I would not be able to feed them as I am feeding them now, financially speaking.
As for me, I did have four, and three is so much less work than four, it makes a huge difference. I loved having four, and I've been lucky several times to have had four cats at one time. But now that I am older, three is a better number for me. Little Cat was sent to us (she made four) by my Bridge Angel who left us in May 2009 (her leaving put me at 3 again), at the time LC came I didn't know why, but when my sweet boy left us a year later, then I knew. But we are definitely complete, as we are now.