I've often been told I'm a "drama queen," and if I'm doing that here, I apologize in advance. But I don't know who else to talk to about this.
Last night didn't go well. He ate almost all of his food, but when I went to give him the meds he started swallowing and foaming at the mouth BEFORE I even got the syringe anywhere near him. Twice he got away before I could give him anything, the third time I only got a little in him before he ripped me up leaping away from me (nails, not teeth). He must have spit up on my bed, and was hiding under my bed when I went upstairs to get ready for bed. His usual "safe place" is under the sofa.
This morning, I got up early to see if he'd kept his food down. He had, so I gave him 1/4 pepcid again in the hope that I'd be able to give him the meds later. He ate his 1st breakfast after I had to put several toppers on it, and had eaten maybe 1/2 of his 2nd breakfast by the time I left for work (usually he's had all 3 meals by then). He had greeted me when I first came down, but after he'd eat, he'd go under the daybed to his beddie. So I never gave him the antibiotic. I did put the remaining 1/4 can in the timer feeder to open in the early afternoon. I'm praying his appetite improves, but won't be giving him a pepcid tonight.
I don't know what to do. Do I just give up and wait for an abcess? Do I try another antibiotic? I was willing to give him the pepcid if it would help him tolerate the antibiotic, but I have a hunch that the pepcid was at least part of the reason why he didn't want to eat. If that's the case, then I can't give it to him -- he needs to eat.
I have a hunch the vet won't do the dental surgery unless he's been on the antibiotics for a couple of days, and to her point, he'd need to be on them afterwards as well. I can't have anyone come over to help me medicate him, because he hides as soon as he hears anyone on the front steps.
I actually toyed with letting them give him the Convenia, but he's already shown he couldn't tolerate 2 different antibiotics. If he can't tolerate the Convenia, it's in him for 65 days -- then what?
There's a holistic vet about an hour away, but she doesn't do dentals. I'd have to take him there for a check-up, then she'd refer me to another place that does the dentals. If they say he needs antibiotics, then we're right back to where we started, and more time has passed.
I'm at a loss, and I'm so upset. This is my fault for not getting him checked every year, and he's paying for it.
Thanks in advance for letting me spill.