I don't want to depress anyone, so please don't feel obliged to read this.
If you would like to "meet" her, the link to her Catster profile is below. I never took it down . . . didn't have the heart.
http://www.catster.com/cats/1004705Of the 2 of them, I didn't think I'd bond with her. I had wanted a male and Pookie was the only male of the litter, and I wanted 2 cats so they had company and she was the last female available. Her markings weren't your typical tuxedo, and took getting used to. But she had such a sweet personality, and was such a Momma's girl, and so funny. I couldn't think of a name for her, and decided on Ebony, or "Bonnie" for short, but I usually called her "Sweetie Girl."
Of the two, her health problems (from the carpy food and I suspect over-vaccination) were worse than his. 3 months after I removed the kibble, I messed up and left a toy out that had a lot of string. Pookie ate it, and ended up at the vet's for several days. After he came back, she wanted nothing to do with him, and not long after I had to separate them. She started developing lots of food allergies, and after a year of tons of research and a homeopathic vet (who I didn't find very helpful), I gave her to the vet she's with now. It was a 6 year battle overall, and I just couldn't do it anymore.
She was almost 7 years old at the time.